How to be your own boss

By butterboy

Would you like to have more time to do the things you really want? Would you like to make money from your own home? Would you like to be your own boss, have more freedom? You can make thousands of dollars a month just working part time. If this sounds like you, don’t pick up the phone and call one of those 800 numbers. Do yourself a favor and look seriously into trading.

“90% of traders don’t make it.” This is true. It has to be because I read about it in the internet somewhere. However consider this. Of those 90%, how many of those traded for more than a year. How many of those people actually found a successful method, studied it, and adapted it to their own personality? How many of those people had unrealistic expectations?

Your typical day trader comes into the industry expecting to make six figures in six months to a year. If they can’t do that then it isn’t worth it. Well allow me to let you in on a little secret. If you approached trading as a career, just like any other career, your probabilities of making it would be much higher.

If you want to have a white collar job and make a median wage, which for sake of argument I’ll say is 50k here in nyc, then you can’t just show up at the office. The first thing you need is a college degree. Sure your first two years are classes that will for the most part be useless, and even those things you learn in your later years won’t be used at your new job, since you will be trained, but you do have to find a way to fork up 10k a semester.

Let’s just say you were a good student , but not the best , you’ll probably get a few scholarships and loans, and if you’re lucky only get 15k in debt. So let’s get this straight. You spent four years learning your craft, of which you’ll use different textbooks that are directly related to that craft for only two to two and half of those years. You’re already in the hole for 15k. Yet, you’re not even getting that starting 50k salary unless you’re the creme de la creme. You should be happy getting anywhere from 37.5k to 45k.

“But it’s a sure thing”. The only sure thing in life are death and taxes. By your third year you would have learned about the popular corporate term called the layoff. New hirees will get higher salaries than you. By your third year your lucky to be making 60k. If you want to get to 100k, you probably have to be in some mid to high level IT or finance position. Of course, this will probably happen at your third job, because that’s the best way to get a raise. Companies don’t believe in promoting their own. Mind you, this is seven years after you started your journey, because that’s what you went to college for , to get a job.

You want to make 75-90k out of school. Go get an MBA which will take you a year or three after your four year college. After that your pay raises won’t go as quickly as you want either. Want to make 120k or so, go to law school or get a doctorate. Oh yea, I forget to mention that neither getting your MBA or getting your other degrees are free. That’s proabably another 20 – 50k in the hole, and that’s being conservative.

Succes at trading is a matter of approach. If you took four years and invested 15k into your account and went about it in a methodical method, reading books, watching succesful traders, taking time to perfect your own method, there’s no reason you can’t make 100k after four years. Once you increase your equity you can increase your risk and guess what? Your pay raise will be much higher than a paltry 10 to 20k. Heck after ten years you can be making more than 500k a year. There is no ceiling as to how much you can make.

The beauty of it is that there are no time constraints. You don’t have to take four years. Maybe it takes you one to be profitable. Maybe you’re making 100k after two years. This is very possible. The key here is to treat trading for what it is. It isn’t a get rich quick scheme. It isn’t a fun way to spend your time. It is a job. A career choice where not only can you make a living, but a very good one at that. Once you do that, you don’t have to deal with the excess BS forever constant at a “secure” job. No sucking up to your boss. No avoiding certain coworkers or worrying about being politically correct at the workplace. No getting yelled at by your superiors. No having to use your vacation days to take your kid to a ballgame in the middle of the summer. You are your own boss. Better yet, you hold the keys to your destiny. So what are you going to do with the rest of your life? Are you going to contnue to make the 90% a fact or turn it into an urban legend? Take control now. Operators are standing by.

13 Responses to “How to be your own boss”

  1. Ugly Says:

    Nice post – I agree 100%.
    Not only that, but if you happen to love trading – then you get to do what you love.

  2. Shay Says:

    Very nice post.
    This is the first time I visit your blog and I love the things you write under psychology. They are very true and summed up nicely.

    I don’t yet daytrade since I lack the funds, but I do paper daytrade and swing trade with real money.
    I sympatize with every thing you wrote.

    Keep up the good work and continue your studies.

  3. DanB Says:

    Kind of an odd post coming from a rookie. I’d say by definition you have no idea what kind of money can be made, or even if YOU will still be around in a year. The post sounded more like you trying to convince yourself. Not to mention the ramblings on college seemed a bit out of place, exactly where were you going with that?

  4. butterboy Says:

    DanB, just because I don’t make the money myself doesn’t mean I don’t know individuals that do. Even an intelligent individual as yourself would know that it is possible to make more than six figures at this job. And no, I don’t need to convince myself . I already know this is what I want to do, and if i’m still alive 40 years from now, I’ll still be doing this. The key is simple. You really have to love this, if not , you won’t be successful. You also have to have a grasp on your limitations, which I’ve come to terms to. If you didn’t understand my ramblings on college than you probably never will. Check back next year to see if I”m still around.

  5. butterboy Says:

    Thanks Shay. Appreciate the positivity.

  6. John Says:

    I’m not a trader, but I love what you say. I think your points can be applied to those of us who are more longer-term investors. Study, study, study. Invest TIME into learning and then applying what you’ve discovered. Great stuff.

  7. max Says:

    Hey butterboy whats up man. It was a pleasure to meet you on thursday along with all the other bloggers! What was that forex website you mentioned to me stretagyfx.com or something along those lines? Drop me an email. Thx

  8. AK Says:

    Man, I have told friends and family the exact same thing about being your own boss and not making other people rich all of my life. I am only 23 and i realized years ago that the people who are most succesful in life didn’t work years for someone else, but worked for themselves. The whol concept of getting into 50K+ dollars into debt when you aren’t even guaranted a 25K dollars job when graduate never made sense to me. I feel that if give the time and 25K anyone studying on their own for four years can be successful at anything. My theory is that college is for people who want too be teachers doctors, etc. But if you want to be a millionaire, billionaraire or (dare I say) trillionaire (can’t a man dream). College is not where you need to cut your teeth. Granted I do attend college for four years (as a result of my mother’s cruel hand) and graduated with honors I never loss focus of what truly wanted to do. Which was be me own boss. So over the last few years, I have slowly but surely minimized the gap between my work income and my trading income. On the day one surpasses the other I will retire (from working for anyone but myself). I wish you many winning trades, and hope all goes well.

  9. butterboy Says:

    Max, the site is strategybuilderfx.com. There you can download the software. Other sites to look at are forexfactory.com , piptrader.com, and babypips.com

  10. LP Says:

    I don’t know DanB from ahole in the wall but you have probably decided to take the hardest road to ruin or riches. I may not agree with everything you wrote but I think you have the right mindset and if you risk small and learn your setups, I think you are going to be just fine. Listen I started 2 weeks ago though I have paper traded and read and read and read for the past 2 months, it meant shite until I put down my first dollar. I’ve never experienced this level of fear in my life. What has helped me beyond Trader X and Trader Mike is my trading platform Thinkorswim.com. There’s a daily rolling live audio commentary by Shadowtrader. I find this so helpful in this stage of my trading career as Peter talks all day about market internals and technicals. I’m learning how to understand potential market moves thru TOS. I never trade potential as it has burned me in the past but it helps me decide on the possible direction of my trade. Basically it helps me trade in the direction of the market. Which can only help. I also learned something by going to Taleofthetape.net. He forces himself to only make 2 trades a day, so it better be the best damn 2 setups of the day. This has helped me not over trade and still struggling to find the best damn sets though. I also only risk the size of the entry bar meaning if it was a hammer and the high/low had .30 spread, then I take my max risk of $250 and divide it by $0.30. In this example I it comes out to 833.33 shares, but I limit myself to 500 max. I implemented this after my first 6 trades, where I had 1 winner and 5 loosers. I was a paper trading genius but I sucked with real money. So I implemented this style of money management and since then my worst loss was around $150 and my winners are on average about the same to $250. That doesn’t mean that my R/R is 1 to 1. It just that I whussed out on NRPH and SHPGY and YUM. I could have made about 3 grand on those three trade this week. I hate loosing these trades but there are similar trades almost every day, you just have to look hard for them. However, since I also ditched some hard to trade setups, and stick with strong gappers (Trader X), my win loss has been changed from 1 & 6 to 5 & 2. BTW, you can try out TOS free @ thinkorswim.com for 2 weeks and see if Shadowtrader can be a good educational tool for you. Just a suggestion.

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